Friday, October 8, 2010

They are just Fairy Tales after all...


Movie after movie, I feel like they all end is some kind of fairy tale love. Regardless of what trouble or hurt the characters of the movie have gone through in the end they find the one that sweeps them off their feet. Growing up I used to plan my wedding with my bestfriend- Sierra. We would go through magazines and pick out dresses and engagement rings, we even picked out the perfect bridesmaid dresses. I thought my life would be like these movies we watched growing up, my life would end in a fairy tale and I'd be swept off my feet. But at the age of 22, I no longer believe in fairy tales, they are things of the past solely for movies. Maybe it's my skeptic attitude for life but I believe the art of sweeping has died.
No longer do men hold open doors for women, pay for meals or ask them out on real dates. Now it seems to be all about hooking up and jumping right into these labeled relationships. What happened to the courtship and spending time getting to know someone. When I hear stories of fantastic courtships I wonder if it has all died and it's truly only in movies. So for all you romantic people out there do some sweeping or something prove to me it's not just a fairy tale. Because until someone revives that fairy tale I once believed in I think I will keep my skeptic attitude and beliefs.

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Soho for answers


As far as I can remember shopping has always been the thing I've turned to when I've had a rough week, or need something new in my life. Yes it is the thing that takes me out of my slump. There is something about those shiny new shoes or great fitting dress that seems to make my slump disappear. Many of my male friends hate shopping they don't understand the need to try one eight million dresses for one that fits "perfect." According to them they all look nice, but there is something about that perfect dress that can give a women confidence and turn her day upside down. So women take comfort there are many others out there that feel that way. There is something about changing my wardrobe that makes me feel like I'm opening a new chapter of my life. Saying farewell to the old and hello to new opportunities. So I say shop on, maybe I'll see you in Soho.